Think Before You Speak

😍Dear  Friends😍

🌹I wish you a very Happy Evening.🌹

💕Sharing a Jewish proverb 💕

❤ A bird that you set free may be caught again, but a word that escapes your lips will not return.❤ 


💜This proverb insists on  on effective communication. This proverb is insisting us not to talk impulsively.💜


💛We have to carefully weigh, think about what it would mean to others when we talk..Because our words can be easily misinterpreted and misunderstood by people.💛

 

💜When we are angry, we should not speak at all.Suppose we say something in angry mood our words will haunt us when we are alone.💜

 

💛Communication is an art. Our communication with others should be simple and kind. No harsh words should be used. We should talk with extreme politeness and kindness. Care should be taken that our words should not hurt others.💛


💜Extreme patience is necessary when we are talking.We must think twice and say once.While talking some people will talk holding their breath. That is not correct. We have to practice deep breathing well.💜


💛When we are breathing,  we have to think about the consequences of our talks and talk if required.💛

 

💜Before speaking the words, we have to rehearse the words by self-talking within us and then talk. We must remember that once words are spoken, we cannot take it back.💜


💛If we let go the bird we can bring it back and put it in the cage but once we speak  we cannot get back the words💛


❤Friends we have to not only mind our thoughts but we have to mind our words too,❤


💕Let us speak not only kindly but wisely also. Always  Think Before  speaking.💕


😍Please watch

https://youtu.be/Al6FulLfvMY😍


❤💕Kind Regards  ❤💕




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