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Love Even If You Are Hurt

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😍Dear Friends😍 💕Happy Thursday💕 ❤Heart is a very important muscular organ in our body. Our life depends on the strength of our heart. The main function of our heart is to purify blood The size of our heart is equal to the size of our fist.❤ 🧡Heart is connected to love, compassion and fine emotions. Our heart never agrees with our brain Our brain is connected to intelligence, wisdom and other Cognitive faculties.🧡 🙏Charles Dickens says, “A loving heart is the truest wisdom”.🙏 💚A loving heart is the most patient heart and It does not expect perfection in anyone. A person with a loving heart is simple, caring and understanding. A loving heart tolerates all the hurt and insults A loving heart forgives and ready to help us in our difficulties💚 💙A loving heart will soothe and comfort us when we are hurt by others A loving heart  bears all the pains we cause but still loves us.💙 💕Who has such a beautiful heart?💕 💜Only o...

Why Forgive?

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😍Dear Friends😍 💕Happy Evening💕   Those who love, will forgive and those who forgive will love is a saying. People who are happy will forgive. Unhappy people hold anger and resentment Therefore they will not forgive.💜 💛When someone causes bitterness and hurts you, don’t hold on to anger and vengeance. Forgive them and move ahead in life. If we hold on to anger, it hurts us but not them. If we do not forgive, we will have health setbacks. If we practice forgiveness, peace, joy, gratitude and hope will embrace us. When we forgive the act, we develop the feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion.💛 💕If we are unforgiving,💕 🧡We might bring anger and bitterness into every relationship We might become so wrapped up in the wrong and we can't enjoy the present We might become depressed or anxious We may lose valuable and enriching connectedness with others We become stressed in life and we cannot perform well Due to stress...

A Bruise is a Lesson

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Dear Friends❤ 🌻Happy Evening🌻 💚A bruise can be both physical and mental. Both hurts us. We feel the pain. Pain teaches us lessons of life. We become wise.💚 💛When we are hurt by a bruise physically, it hurts our body. We apply medicines, coconut oil etc to soothe and heal. Instead if we put a pin and poke it will hurt us more. The wound will become septic.💛 💙When we are hurt by a bruise it hurts our heart and brain. We feel bitter about it causing anger. Our mind constantly thinks about it and the hurt may cause an imbalance in our personality and the inner self.  The mental hurt takes long time to heal and cure. It affects our life. But we learn bitter lessons of life.💙 🧡Time is the best healer. Over the period of time the wound heals leaving a scar in our mind. The scar reminds us the bruise. If we go on thinking about the pain of the bruise we are not moving with the life.🧡 💛We should learn to forget the bruise, the...

Forgiving is Divine

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😍Dear Friends😍 🌹Happy Night🌹   💜This quote is insisting on forgiving people those who err us. Why should we forgive those who hurt us? Forgiving those who hurt us is a Divine activity. Forgiveness is for our own growth and happiness. 💜 💛When we hold on to hurt, pain, resentment, and anger it harms us. Many biological functions come to a standstill. We face hormonal imbalance. We face several health disorders. When we forgive, we forget the act and person who hurt us.💛 🧡When we forgive we get the freedom of living in the present. If we don’t forgive, we are living in the past.  When we forgive we are devoid of anger and hatred for the person. We will not seek revenge on that person.🧡 💚If we nurture anger and hatred in our mind we become the host of negative energy.  When the mind is full of negative energy, we cannot think positively. Positive thinking is very essential to good life harmoniously with everyone ar...

Love More ... When You Hurt

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❤Dear Friends❤ 🌻Happy Morning🌻 🌹A simple illustration:🌹 ❤Child mixes all the various ingredients in the mom’s spice box or The child spills dosa batter all over the kitchen kept for night dinner.❤ ❤Mother may get  angry because she has to do additional work. She may hit the child. When the child weeps, the mother cannot see the child weeping. She hugs the child and showers love on the child. The child stops weeping but smiles at her loving mother.❤ 💕So friends when the person is hurt by your words or deeds shower  love on that person. All hurt and anger will disappear.💕 💕Why should we not hurt others?💕 💜When we hurt people  we build negative energy in our system. Our inner self and  our life get spoilt. We suffer physically, physiologically and emotionally  Our wellbeing get disturbed.💜 🧡On the contrary, when we love others we get many benefits.  Our wellness and wellbeing improves. Love promotes h...

Your Life Your Choice

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❤💕 Dear  Friends❤💕 🌻🌹I wish you a very Happy Night🌻 💕Our life depends on the choices we make. We feel happy when we hear   good and nice words from our friends and relatives. 💕 💙But we get upset due to the behavior of unkind and harsh people. We try to correct them.💙 💛But they don’t like to be corrected. So we feel bad and we try to avoid them.💛 💕Is this strategy right? No dear friends.💕 💚If we do not like something, we have to change ourselves. We cannot expect others to change for us.💚   🧡No one can make us feel any negative or demoralized and make us feel unhappy. There will always be people who find perverse enjoyment in upsetting us.🧡 💛They play on the emotions of other people and feel joyful inside for hurting us. It depends on us and how we react to their negative behaviour.💛 💚If we get hurt by their behaviour, then they are successful. If we don’t get hurt by their behaviour and remain cool, we become the winner.💚   💜Everythi...

Hospital Bed

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😍Dear Friends😍 🌹🌻Happy Evening🌹🌻 💙Sharing a Story💙 🧡Title: Hospital Bed🧡 💚Chitra and Sumati are daughters in law of the same house. Chitra came from a rich family. All her siblings and relatives praised her and supported her ever after marriage She too was very proud that she is getting a lot of attention from her parent’s home and relatives.💚   💜Sumati is from lower middle class family. She did not get so much support from her parents and relatives because of lack of finance and status.   Whenever Chitra used to speak about her parent’s house support she would pinpoint that Sumati is not getting support from her parents home.💜   💚Though Sumati is born in a lower middle class family, she has a rich heart and a broad mind. Every time she was taunted, she would smile at her sister in law and not talk a word.   Their parent’s in law never likes  the behavior of Chitra. They tried to correct her but in vain. Chitra never corrected herself....

Why Forgive?

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😍Loving Friends😍 🌹I wish you a Happy Tea Time with Family and Friends🌹   💙When people play with our emotions and feelings we are hurt and wounded. Forgiving those who hurt us will heal our wounds. Forgiveness is good for the forgiver. It can contribute to our healing from the damage done by the offender.  We will let go the feelings of anger, resentment, and bitterness by forgiving people who have harmed us.💙   💚Forgiving our enemies is a life strategy. Why are our enemies hurting us? They want us to hurt them back and hate them back. What happens when we forgive our enemies? When we forgive them they are annoyed at us. They are confused why we have forgiven them. Because they would not have expected this from us. The intention of hurting us is that they want to see how we react.💚 💛If we outburst and react, our enemies will dominate our life and thoughts If we hold on to enmity, it will not harm our enemies. But it will definitely harm us health wise....

Erase..

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😍Dear  Friends😍 💕I wish you a Blessed Day💕   😍The most important constituent of a pencil box is eraser. When a child makes mistakes, it helps in erasing the imperfections.😍 🌹 Likewise,🌹 🌹We need an eraser to erase our mistakes that we make to correct them🌹 🌻We need an eraser when we deal with our imperfections to perfect it🌻 🍁We need an eraser when people hurt us and use harsh words against to delete them completely from our memory.🍁 🌿 We need an eraser when we encounter negative minded people to erase the impact of negative energy.🌿   🌹We need an eraser when we deal with our own negative thinking to turn it into positive.🌹   🌻We need an eraser when we think about the past to erase the past memories.🌻   🍁We need an eraser when we are excited about our future to erase our anxieties 🍁   🌿We need an eraser when our peace of mind is disturbed to erase  our tension.🌿   🌹We need an eraser when some  sadness atta...

Kindness is the Cure

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😍Dear Friends😍 🌻Happy Evening🌻   🌹 Friends, have you ever thought why people hurt others?🌹 🍁If you have not thought about it please go ahead and read.🍁   😍It is the tendency of many people to hurt others They hurt others for various reasons.😍   💙Some people are not emotionally balanced. They look through and read in between what we say and talk They don’t take facts in the right spirits So they wait for an opportunity to hurt. When they get a chance  they hurt.💙   💜Some other people are egoists. They feel no end of themselves. They have a high level of superiority complex. They feel that others low in intelligence, and caliber. So they hurt  when they get a chance.💜   💛Both the types of people will feel happy When they know we are hurt because of them. They want us to react and use angry words against them They hurt others because they were badly hurt by some others. They hurt us to overcome their hidden  pains💛 💚Their...