Be Confident, Not Certain

😍Dear Friends😍

❤Happy Morning❤


🙏Be confident, not certain🙏


😍This is a beautiful  quote by Elenor Roosevelt. 😍


❤Though the number of words are less, the meaning it conveys is great.❤


🧡What is confidence?


If we don't  have confidence in ourselves we cannot life a pin.So Confidence is our ticket to  achievement. 🧡


👌How do we develop confidence 👌


😍We try something, we may experience failure.  We learn, we grow, we improve…we develop confidence.😍


💙During our experimentation with life, We also understand what we can do and cannot do..  in short we understand our limitations. 💙


💛We develop confidence with time, experience, and growth,💛


💚We start trying new things once we get confidence. As a result we grow.💚


🧡We find out what we can do well. We find out what we don’t do so well. 

Slowly  we build confidence in us🧡



💙Confidence also helps us to achieve and increases the likelihood of success.💙


💚Friends, do you remember the famous saying, ✌" If you think you can, you can"✌. Sometimes we may overestimate our capacity and abilities💚


💛We may become overconfident and arrogant. So we should keep these qualities low.💛


💜HOWEVER our level of confidence  should not take us to the point of CERTAINTY. This is Eleanor’s main point.💜


💛With confidence we may become self motivativated and self accelerated  individuals. But confidence does not guarantee us certainity of our plans.💛

 

💚If we are  CERTAIN, we tend to let down our guard. Our overconfidence, and CERTAINTY may make us lose our focus and we  will see failures.💚



🧡Certainty will definitely make us overconfident.The key is balance. Enough confidence to proceed with boldness and assurance. But not TOO MUCH confidence. Too much confidence can be our undoing.🧡


💛We don’t know the future because future is unpredictable and uncertain. Therefore we should learn to become flexible and dynamic while devising our strategies.💛


💜Confidence may give us  experience, and skill, and proven capability. 

We cannot expect what might change in the future. So the highly confident cannot expect what might lie in the future.💜



💙Circumstances may change

We may be confident about something because of the current state of the matter. 💙


💚But when the future becomes the present, we may need to reconsider. Reality has a way of forcing us to reassess and reconsider our confident plans.💚


💃All dancers must have confidence when they are making fast moves 

Just think of a pole dancer how much confidence they should carry in their hearts. They have to exhibit hogh levels of grit and strength. They have to  change their steps till they finish their performance .So no certainty for their steps 💃


❤So, Be confident, not certain.❤


🌹Please watch


https://youtu.be/PP9uFcbDoTU🌹


💕Kind Regards💕



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